My Valentines Day

My Valentines day went very well. As you may know, this was the first Valentines day as a married man. It was a bit different than when Jackie and I were dating. It felt more relaxed than years past. There's nothing "expected" as most people freak out about come this time of the year. She did want something, but it was spending time with me, rather than just doing something for her. I think a lot of people loose sight of that on holidays like Valentines day. It's about the loved ones you surround yourself with, not the things you surround yourself with. I know that sound kinda cliche, but it's true. 

We where supposed to go and hang out with Jackie's cousin and her husband, but something ended up falling through. Anyway, we decided to cook dinner, steaks to be exact. I entered the store the same side as the card isles are located. The scene was almost comical. There must of been over 20 guys there in the isle looking for a last minute gift. It made me want to take a picture (now that I think of it, I should of). I started thinking of how shallow people are starting to become. Maybe it's been so long that I've forgotten what it's like to be in those guys' shoes, but I don't know. I thought of how lucky I am to have a wife who's most desired gift on Valentines day is my time. I bought food and treats that I was confident Jackie would enjoy. Keep in mind that this was last minute as well, but it was different. I wasn't stressing out about what she would think of what I was doing for her. All I could think about was having the opportunity to spend time with my wife. I don't know who of you is reading this, but if you have a girlfriend/boyfriend, but show them the love you have for them, not how much your relationship is worth with a present. If your relationship is based on what you can get out of it, your headed in a deadly direction. Try viewing you relationship on how you can be a value to your loved one. It may be hard at first, but it will definitely pay off in the long run. Hope you all had a great V-Day!

-Ryan